BIRTHING EXPERIENCES

The birth of my first child was quite a life changing experience for me. I remember being young and not knowing what to actually expect from the whole birthing process. Course I browsed through the numerous books and parenting magazines, but the whole experience was a shocking revelation for me. Once the whole birthing ordeal was over I was the proud mother of a bouncing baby boy. The moment that really hit home was when I looked over and seen him sleeping in his hospital bed. I thought to myself “Wow that came out of me”. At that point I realized all the preparations for this moment was not what mattered. I was a mother now, it was no longer just about me, and my son needed me.

I found it interesting as I read about the birthing rituals in Ghana. I couldn’t imagine being quietly curled in a corner giving birth. There is no screaming or sounds of discomfort from the mother and the midwife is especially quiet during this process. Once the baby is born, it doesn’t make a sound either. This is called a gentle birth.  I can understand the whole meaning behind the gentle birth process because the baby comes into the world peacefully. However considering I have experienced birth three times, I can’t recall a time when I gave birth quietly.  I’m glad I had the opportunity to explore these compelling facts about how women give birth in different parts of the world.